When it is possible to adopt in special cases: the lawyer’s guide
In Italy, adoption is a path governed by strict rules, designed to safeguard the well-being of minors. However, there are situations in which the law provides exceptions to the general rule: in such cases reference is made to adoption in special cases. This form of adoption is designed to respond to concrete needs, especially when there is already a stable emotional bond between the minor and the person who wishes to adopt them.
Single people, unmarried couples or close relatives such as grandparents and aunts/uncles may have doubts about when it is possible to adopt, especially in the absence of a marriage or a recognised civil union. This legal guide to adoption is born precisely to offer clarity and practical guidance to those in these conditions who wish to understand their rights and possibilities.
Adoption in special cases: what it means and in which situations it applies
Italian law distinguishes between ordinary adoption and adoption in special cases. The first is reserved for couples married for at least three years, while the second applies to exceptional circumstances, in which it is in any event possible to ensure stability and emotional continuity to the minor.
These situations include:
- adoption by single persons, even without marriage or cohabitation
- adoption of the partner’s child, for example in unmarried or same-sex couples
- adoption by aunts/uncles, grandparents or other relatives who care for the minor on an ongoing basis
- adoption by foster families, where a consolidated emotional bond has been formed
In all these cases, we are not talking about “full” adoption (which extinguishes the bond with the family of origin), but about an adoption that maintains the surname and the legal relationships of the minor with their biological family. The aim is to strengthen emotional stability, not to replace the family of origin.
Who can adopt and what are the requirements for adoption in special cases
To understand when it is possible to adopt in special cases, it is essential to know the criteria established by art. 44 della Legge n. 184/1983, which governs this matter.
The requirements for adoption in special cases include:
- Age of the adopter: must be at least 18 years older than the minor, but no more than 45 years’ difference (save for exceptions linked to a pre-existing emotional bond).
- Stable emotional bond: it is essential to demonstrate the existence of a consolidated educational and emotional relationship between the person adopting and the minor.
- Suitability of the applicant: assessed by social services and confirmed by the Juvenile Court.
- Best interest of the minor: every decision is taken on the basis of their well-being, and never to satisfy an “abstract” wish for parenthood.
It must be emphasised that one need not be married. The legal guide to adoption in special cases provides indeed that single persons or de facto couples may also access this path, provided that the bond with the minor is real, lasting and supported by evidence.
Frequently asked questions on adoption in special cases
Can I adopt my nephew/niece if the parents are not able to take care of them? Yes, if there is a consolidated emotional bond and the adoption corresponds to the best interest of the minor, the court may authorise adoption also by aunts/uncles or grandparents.
Is adoption by single persons possible even without cohabitation? Yes, adoption by single persons is allowed, especially if it is shown that the person already takes care of the minor on an ongoing basis.
What are the timeframes of the procedure? Timeframes vary depending on the specific situation and on the availability of social services. On average, the procedure can last from a few months to a year.
Does adoption in special cases give rights to the surname? The minor keeps their original surname, but may add that of the adopter. The relationships with the biological family are not extinguished.
Can I adopt my partner’s child if we are not married? Yes, adoption of the partner’s child is one of the cases provided for by law, if the relationship is stable and the minor has a significant emotional bond with the applicant.
Assessing the adoption path with awareness
Adoption in special cases is a precious tool for offering legal and emotional stability to minors who already live in non-conventional but solid family contexts. It is a path that requires commitment, documentation and discussion with social services and the court, but one that can ensure important protections for all the people involved.
Those in this situation, whether a close relative, a partner or a foster carer, often wonder where to start, which documents are needed or how to demonstrate suitability. For this reason, a legal guide to adoption can really make the difference. And if any doubts remain or clarifications are needed on specific cases, there are professionals ready to accompany every step with care and competence.
Sometimes, a discussion with someone who knows the legislation in detail can help to clarify the picture and to move forward more peacefully. This is also why those wishing to delve into these topics can rely on the availability of legal practices with experience in family law.