Maintenance allowance: 5 things you should know before signing
When facing a separation or divorce, the maintenance allowance represents one of the most delicate aspects to define. Often, those in this phase are in a hurry to find an agreement and risk signing without having fully understood the legal implications.
Here are five fundamental aspects that it is good to know before signing an economic agreement for the separation.
The allowance is not just for children
Many believe that the maintenance allowance concerns exclusively the children. In reality, it can also be provided in favour of the former spouse, especially in cases where there is a significant economic disparity between the parties.
The maintenance of children in the case of separation is mandatory, but the allowance to the former spouse depends on various factors, such as the duration of the marriage, working capacity and the previous standard of living.
Defining the amount and methods precisely
One of the most common mistakes is to leave the definition of the allowance generic or insufficiently detailed. Instead, it is essential to clearly establish the amount, the frequency of the payments, and any methods of updating. This helps to avoid future conflicts and makes it easier to demonstrate any non-compliance. The agreement must be formalised in such a way as to be enforceable also before the judge.
The maintenance obligation is not eternal
Signing a maintenance allowance does not mean taking on a lifetime obligation. The law and case law recognise the possibility of requesting a review of the maintenance allowance in case of significant changes: loss or increase of income, new cohabitation, economic autonomy of the beneficiary.
This is a key aspect to consider before signing, in order to assess whether to include review clauses or suspensive conditions.
Adult children may no longer be entitled to maintenance
Many parents do not know that, where there are adult children, maintenance is no longer automatic. If the child has completed their studies and is not actively looking for work or refuses suitable opportunities, the parent can request the cessation of the obligation. At the agreement stage it is good to also provide for these future scenarios, in order to avoid the matter returning to court.
Every agreement must be assessed with legal attention
A hasty signature can have consequences difficult to modify later. Before accepting any proposal, it is important to know what it entails in terms of obligations regarding the maintenance allowance. Every family situation is different, and only a personalised assessment can ensure balance and protection.
For those about to sign an economic agreement for separation, it is essential to be aware of one’s responsibilities and rights. Studio Legale Boschetti, for years active in family law, is available to accompany with discretion those who wish to move with clarity in this delicate passage.

Avv. Francesca Farina
Lawyer, Rome Bar · Boschetti Studio Legale
She graduated in Law at Roma Tre University with a thesis in Family Law and worked with Save the Children on the protection of minors. Specialised in family law, succession and international adoptions, with a Master’s degree in Legal Psychology and Forensic Psychopathology. Since 2024 she has led the family and succession team of Boschetti Studio Legale.
Rome Bar Association
Roma Tre Degree
Save the Children
Master’s in Legal Psychology